The world around us can be dynamic and sometimes intense.
If channeled in a positive direction, being around people who are intense and dynamic or situations that are dynamic and intense can be a good thing; even a great thing. It can be the fuel that gets the creative juices started and sometimes can bring about breakthroughs or solutions in otherwise stuck situations.
But if you are already feeling overloaded or overwhelmed by being the single parent (either widowed or divorced) who works full-time, takes care of the house, the children and the finances, then maybe for your own sake it’s time to take a temporary break from the strong emotions and go far far away from the madding crowd.
You probably know that you are getting close to blowing a gasket when you feel “if one more person comes to me with a problem, I think I will loose it.”
That “I’ve had enough” feeling reminds me of a popular commercial for bath salts that ran on television many, many years ago. The commercial would show the average stressful day in a woman’s life and then you would hear the tag line of “Calgon, take me away.” Next you would see a bath tub full of bubbles, inviting the viewer to run to the store and buy a box of Calgon for inner peace.
I think there’s something to this drugstore remedy because the thing that you might really like to do to relax is either too expensive, illegal or maybe both. It’s important for single parents to make themselves a priority and take care of themselves just as much as they take care of others.
I think I can definitely spring for a box of Calgon and turn off the phone and the computer.
CVS, you better be open late tonight!
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