In caregiving, you can lose yourself and become part of something bigger as life unfolds by itself. You may recall the wonderful memories of this person in happier times and there is beauty in caregiving because the life of the one giving care is as valuable as the life of the one receiving care. If you are not related to or are a stranger to the person, then it is even more admirable, for the caregiver is performing the essence of ‘doing unto others as you would have them do to you.’
I feel that it’s never to late to say “thank you” to anyone for anything. Life is about having no regrets and taking care of someone when they are vulnerable falls into that category of doing something just because it’s the right thing to do. A verbal expression of gratitude is a powerful thing and always appreciated.
The link below will take you to a Los Angeles Times story that is an open letter from a son to his mother thanking her for the incredible acts of kindness that she performed. Often in life we don’t think about what another person has done until life has knocked us around a little bit and we come to realize that kindness should be treasured. The timing of this son’s heartfelt thanks being published on Mother’s Day makes his letter even more special, but it could have been written on any day of the year.
http://www.latimes.com/health/la-me-0513-lopez-moms-day-20120513,0,1527908.column
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