Hi Dear Friends!
Yesterday I went for my annual eye exam and of course the doctor dilated my eyes. I now have to use eye drops three to four times a day. One is a prescription drop and the other is an over-the-counter brand. I am just getting used to this new routine and I am finding that it’s a lot of drops to have rolling down my face. Better get some water-proof mascara right?
Needless to say, computer time has been temporarily shortened but today I still wanted to post some thoughts about healing and managing life’s wacky stresses.
I am sharing a short but wise essay a friend sent me (author unknown) on keeping it together and remembering to jump off the hamster wheel, take break and RELAX.
As I write this, it is snowing in the Washington, DC area and schools and the federal government are closed. Perhaps you are taking an unexpected break today and if you are snow bound, I hope you keep your power and have time to enjoy some down time!
A lecturer, when explaining stress management to an audience,
raised a glass of water and asked,
“How heavy is this glass of water?”
Answers called out ranged from 20 g to 500g.
The lecturer replied, “The absolute weight doesn’t matter.
It depends on how long you try to hold it.
If I hold it for a minute, that’s not a problem.
If I hold it for an hour, I’ll have an ache in my right arm.
If I hold it for a day, you’ll have to call an ambulance.
In each case, it’s the same weight, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes.”
“And that’s the way it is with stress management.
If we carry our burdens all the time, sooner or later,
as the burden becomes increasingly heavy,
we won’t be able to carry on.”
“As with the glass of water,
you have to put it down for a while and rest before holding it again.
When we’re refreshed, we can carry on with the burden.”
“So, before you return home tonight, put the burden of work down.
Don’t carry it home.
You can pick it up tomorrow.
Whatever burdens you are carrying now,
let them down for a moment if you can.”
So, my friend, why not take a while to just simply RELAX.
Put down anything that may be a burden to you right now.
Don’t pick it up again until after you’ve rested a while.
Life is short.